Masters of Sex Style
10 years ago
This is a personal journal of a daily life and a lifetime of changes... This is a writer's notebook... Topics discussed here: Movies (old and new); Books (Literary Fiction, and current non-fiction); Dogs; Joni's songs; LGBT Life; Current Events; And anecdotes from the Past...
"My heart also sang Sunday night as you made a bold and powerful statement on behalf of gay rights...taking a thoughtful stand against “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell.” I sincerely admire your dedication to pursuing justice on behalf of those of us who are still marginalized for simply being who we are. For that, I am sincerely grateful.(See Nathan's entire letter here)
...Your work on behalf of gay rights is truly helping push our society out of the dark ages and into a more enlightened time.
Yet, as someone who has dedicated over half my life to advocating on behalf of animal rights, as well as gay rights, my heart sank Sunday night when you revealed “the meat dress.” Although you explained that your intention was “not to offend vegetarians or vegans,” the unintended consequence of this “fashion statement” was the promotion, and glamorization, of cruelty and violence toward animals.
As a style icon, your attire has entertained and inspired countless fans. And, in such a position, I hope you would agree that fashion should be fun and creative, not fatal and cruel...."
Throughout this survey, "gay or lesbian" and "homosexual" are used interchangeably.
Do you currently serve with a male or female Service member you believe to be homosexual?
Yes
No
In answering the next few questions, think about all of the units you have served with during your military career.
In your career, have you ever worked in a unit with a leader you believed to be homosexual?
Yes
No
In your career, have you ever worked in a unit with a coworker you believed to be homosexual?
Yes
No
Among all the factors that affect a unit’s performance, how much did the unit members’ belief that this coworker was gay or
lesbian affect the unit’s performance?
A lot
Some
A little
Not at all
No basis to judge
If Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell is repealed and you are assigned to share a room, berth or field tent with someone you believe to be a gay or lesbian Service member, which are you most likely to do? Mark 1.
Take no action
Discuss how we expect each other to behave and conduct ourselves while sharing a room, berth or field tent
Talk to a chaplain, mentor, or leader about how to handle the situation
Talk to a leader to see if I have other options
Something else
Don't know
If you selected 'Something else', please specify below:
If a wartime situation made it necessary for you to share a room, berth or field tent with someone you believe to be a gay
or lesbian Service member, which are you most likely to do? Mark 1.
Take no action
Discuss how we expect each other to behave and conduct ourselves while sharing a room, berth or field tent
Talk to a chaplain, mentor, or leader about how to handle the situation
Talk to a leader to see if I have other options
Asked for White House reaction to Wednesday’s ruling, spokesman Ben Labolt pointed out that President Barack Obama has publicly opposed the same-sex marriage ban “because it is divisive and discriminatory.” However, he said the President “will continue to promote equality for LGBT Americans.”It's unfortunate, to say the least, that Mr. Obama may not have to do much more for gay and lesbian constituents except ride out the present controversies over gay marriage, DADT and Employment Non-Discrimination with empty promises and platitudes. Because in 2012, what other choice will we have? Mr. Obama knows that, and sadly, so may we.
Nevertheless, Obama has also publicly opposed same-sex marriage, and a White House aide said the president’s position has not changed.
“He supports civil unions, doesn’t personally support gay marriage though he supports repealing the Defense of Marriage Act, and has opposed divisive and discriminatory initiatives like Prop. 8 in other states,” said the official, who asked not to be named.
"Every man and woman in uniform is a vitally important part of this review. We need to hear from you and your families so that we can make these judgments in the most informed and effective manner.....So please let us know how to do this right."This seems to me to be a stall tactic, an attempt to manufacture controversy. Does anyone really think Gates' statement is directed toward gay personnel and their families?